soo, im realizing, that as an african american woman. i got it bad. im technically FORCED into a lose , lose situation in life when it comes to men. heres what i came up w/ ...
SITUATION #1
if a blakc woman falls in love wit a no good cheating man, and
A. either everyone knows hes a jerk/cheater but doesnt tell her cuz of either
a1. the "bro code" OR
a2. stayin out of it cuz it's "none of their business"
or B. everyone one does know, including the female, but she puts up w/ it anyways
THENNNN, now she becomes known as the "dumb bitch" or "stupid bitch" .... and we all know one of those.
SITUATION #2
if a black woman realizes that she has been with an aint shit, cheatin ass man, then chooses to dump his ass. moves on, yet does not forget about her past. and in fact learns from it and applies it to her future interactions w/ men. the men now have a problem w/ it and think that EVERY SINGLE WORD out of her mouth was a knokc at either him or the male race (when it probably was just a joke).... THENNNN we come across the "angry blakc women"
either one of those scenarios jst sukcs. if your in love that doesnt make you dumb, and if yur playin it safe than sorry that doesnt make you mean, angry, or hostile.
sighhh .... when will things begin to change... and where do we start.
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